Running your own small, flexible business from home, to fit in with still being a full time, stay at home mum should be simple, shouldn’t it? Having biggish ideas to expand the business and be able to afford that extra caravan holiday in the summer as well as at Easter shouldn’t be a problem, should it?

Unless, of course, you have five children and a husband living at home and constantly demanding your attention, have a house that still hasn’t learnt to clean and tidy itself, dinner that hasn’t learnt to cook itself, have commitments to the PTA and the church, and are still trying to sort through the boxed remnants of a past life destroyed in a house fire two years previously (possessions only-fortunately no loss of life).

Ok, maybe then it’s not quite so simple…

Tuesday 7 April 2015

A Mundane Couple of Weeks



Tidying up… cooking… cleaning… washing… working… 
All essential tasks for everyday living, but not exactly exciting stuff for writing about, are they? During the couple of weeks following my last published blog post, that’s what my life mainly consisted of with hardly any let up in between. Why? Firstly, it was just because I’m a wife and mother, and that’s what we do. Secondly, it was due to our holiday that I was so desperately saving up for and working towards.

Tightening the budget didn’t seem to have any major impact on anyone. Most of us were desperate for the break the holiday would give us- Mike works too hard in a job that pays the bills, but gives little satisfaction; the children work hard in school with little free time in the evenings; I never get to spend any quality time with any of them; and of course we had all had the flu bug going around for so long that it was easy to forget what ‘normal’ felt like any more.

It probably helped that we tend to live carefully anyway- even if we had the money spare I couldn’t imagine going out to the shops and buying anything ‘just because’. I don’t particularly enjoy shopping in any form anyway, and that includes the weekly grocery shop- by doing it online I can dip in and out of over the course of a day or two and not get too bogged down by the mundane everyday items needed. Tightening the shopping list further therefore made little difference to anyone- only the price I had to pay at the checkout!

With spring still a fair way around the corner for the majority of those couple of weeks, I could concentrate on getting Little Dolly Clothes Shop up to date before going away- my aim was to make up and send out all but the very latest orders, so that I could relax while on holiday, instead of keeping thinking about the work I had outstanding at home! Over two weeks I managed to complete about eight orders- some of which consisted of several items, and it was with a very satisfied feeling that I unplugged the sewing machine on the Friday before we went away. The oldest order left outstanding had only come in six days before, so perfectly reasonable to leave for another week before sewing.

I also wanted to end my Winter Sale before we left, and add my summer items to the store. Somehow though, the weather just didn’t put me in the mood for it- I couldn’t imagine anyone going online just to buy a summer dress for a doll, if they were unlikely to be buying one for themselves for several weeks! I made the decision therefore to end the sale over Easter weekend, once we were back home, thereby giving me plenty of free time to add the new items gradually before the children were back in school.

Once the weather began looking a little more cheerful, I found that old feeling of needing to spring clean kicking in again! I think the fact that I was trying to get up to date with the business before relaxing probably had a bit of a knock on effect here too- I felt like I just wanted life and housework sorted and organised so that I was free for the week away, without imagining the cleaning calling to me while I was there!

So other than a day off for Mother’s Day (lovely dinner cooked by my eldest daughter, flowers, home-made cards, family time etc.) the final two weeks in March went by in a blur of cleaning, tidying worktops and table tops that always seem to collect clutter, frantically sewing orders, and spending long evenings working my way down the ironing mountain! All very mundane- but all very essential tasks, and very satisfying once finished. 
And all tasks which helped towards the goal of me managing to have a relaxing holiday by the sea…

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